Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Blinded...
Has anyone ever been in a relationship in which it was solely about the good looks of the other person rather than what was inside? A relationship in which all of your feelings were based on how attractive your partner is? In my opinion this is the one of the worst type of relationships one could possibly have. You can have a really attractive boyfriend or girlfriend, but what if on the inside the person has a horrible personality? I often ask my friends what would you rather, an attractive partner who is a jerk, or a not so attractive partner who has a great personality? My friends often reply with the first choice, but I think they just say that because they think that's what I want to hear. In actuality, most people choose the cuter face over the less attractive one, regardless of personality. The cuter face is not always the wrong choice, but I think a lot of people go for looks now rather than a person that wil actually treat them right. Even when it is apparent that a person is treating you bad, I think now people see it as I don't want to lose this pretty face so I'm going to stay with this person. This is a bad mentality to have. Is a good looking person more important to you than having your feelings hurt? Would you risk having your heart potentially broken just because this person looks better than the next? What do you think? Comment...
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well wat i think is tht if a person wit good looks has a bad personaility then y r u with then but if a person tht does not look just as good has a nice personality then u shld be wit tht person
ReplyDeleteyou are definetly makin a point to the people who don't understand how that type of thing can affect them and other people...you have spoken the truth Ray....and I agree with you 100%..
ReplyDelete-Tasha
I really thought i was the only person that had those feelings...no offense but it's crazy to hear something like that from a boy... but yuh making good points..hopefully other people will listen
ReplyDelete- Antoinette