Friday, August 28, 2009
Bad is the New Good
I've been noticing an increasing amount of girls who are beginning to fall more and more for the wrong people. Gone are the days where girls ignored the boys who were obviously no good for them. In are the days when girls can't seem to look past these same boys. Today, girls seem to choose the boys who aren't the best choice for them, over the boys who would most likely treat them well. What do girls see in the boys who disrespect them, and cheat? What don't they see in a boy who would treat them the way a female should be treated? Is a boys handsome looks really so important that you would let him hurt your feelings? Where should a female draw the line? I've seen so many good girls choose a jerk because he might look better, over a boy who would treat them with respect but is a little less good looking. Girls cry when they get their feelings hurt by boys and then blame it on the boy. But who is it really to blame? Girls let looks blind their evaluation of a boy too often. There are too many girls who say "that's a cute boy, I want to date him," but that's where it stops. Many girls don't judge based on character anymore, just on looks. This society is running out of the girls who take time to really get to kno boy, and doesn't just hop into a relationship because he might look better than the next person. The boys who can be considered jerks are receiving more and more of the good girls while the decent boys are left without one. Why are girls more prone to dating the heart break boys and not the ones who really care?
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dis is n interestin blog bcuz its happenin mo n mo often in society da sad part is dat ppl r aware of dis but do it newayz smh until ppl start 2 change dis den its goin 2 b a recurring trend
ReplyDeletei understand where u are cuming from with this story.and i agree tht sum girls are settling for less or 4 sum one who treats them like trash.but its also a 2-way street boys do the same thing.with this story it seems like u have a double standard this blog also applys to boys.they want a pretty face or a banging body,who cares if she has a gud heart or a great personality.sum boys as well as gurls are superifaical.i rather have the entire package of pretty face great body.amazing personality and sum1 to complete me as i will complete them...Well srry for rambling on but this is how i feel..l0l
ReplyDeleteWell, I believe that the current generation of females (most of them) can't distinguish their emotions correctly. They say one thing, and out of nowhere, do the opposite. The same thing goes with the way they choose their boyfriends. They preach about how they want a man who treats them right, and does right by them. Well, that's complete B.S. Because when they get him, they begin to take advantage of his kind and giving nature. Then, they go looking for a ruffneck, which is at the other end of the spectrum, and they get their heart-broken in the process. I believe that Men aren't reading women correctly. When they say they want a nice guy, they don't mean they want a submissive little bitch. They want a balance between the 2 extremes. A man who is kind, giving, and supportive, but who also has a life and goals of his own, and isn't afraid to be stern/honest with her. So, guys have to be more confident and secure in the way they approach the relationship, instead of fully aggressive or submissive.
ReplyDeleteahh. i'ma have to put on my thinking cap for this loll. but okay..i'm not gon say that, there aren't any girls out there who don't take the time to get to know a guy and vice versa. however, i do agree with you in the sense that, more and more girls are choosing guys based on looks rather than on personality and other important characteristics, which is..not good really. but, this is jss the REAL world. not everything goes the way it should. but it happens right ? i think, this goes for many people, boys and girls, that they get blinded by things that SHOULDN'T be as significant as loyalty..or trust, etc. i think also, sometimes people are too caught up in the moment, or in the person rather, that they don't really think and see clearly, who that person truly is, deep down inside. all i could really say on this topic, is..whoever makes the mistake of choosing someone who isn't exactly the best for em..i guess, they deserve..ugh, i don't want this to come out mean or bitchy or the wrong way, but they deserve what they get. no matter if they're a good girl or not, they deserve it. they should know better and be wiser than alla that nonsense. they're the ones at fault here, noone to blame but themselves. and, all i could say is, lets hope people learn from their mistakes and their wrong doings. bechuz if not..then they're gon have one miserable heartbreaking life.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true, however girls go for the "bad guys" because they like the aggression of not being able to take advantage as some claim. Also its a very judgemental society so it goes by not even how that person feel anymore its by what others think. I personally dont judge but i wouldnt want to be with someone whos so ugly. But i guess its not whats on the outside, its whats on the in that matters.
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