Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Double Standard?
Why is that cheating for each different gender is viewed differently? Why is it that when boys have multiple girlfriends, he is considered a "playa" but when girls cheat, they are automatically considered a "hoe?" Where does this separation draw a line? I think that to some boys its considered cool to have multiple girls because in todays society whoever gets the most girls seems to be the ones who get the most respect. These boys are often ones who get looked down on by the decent girls because they understand that what the boy is doing is not morally correct. On the flip side, girls who have many boyfriends, not even necessarily at the same time, can still be considered a hoe or smut, because people automatically assume the girl is giving up her body. I say you can't really judge a girl by how many boyfriends she has, because that doesn't really mean she's giving her body to every single one of them. I think people make this common assumption about girls too often, but don't make it about boys enough. Boys are more likely to go out with a girl that looks easy rather than a girl that hasn't had many boyfriends, while girls defile the name of cheating boys and normally try and choose an honest one. I say boys make the smart choice, and dont go out with the girls who are known for having multiple boyfriends and especially for cheating and go for girls who don't have such open relationships. Not saying that girls with multiple boyfriends are hoes, but in my opinion, a girl who doesn't need a good boyfriend to complete her is less likely to cheat than one that does. Also, why are boys looked upon as cool for having multiple girlfriends? Why don't they have demeaning names like girls do? Why is there this lingering double standard for this topic? Someone please explain to me because these differences don't make any sense...
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not bad..
ReplyDeleteboys and girls should be seen as guilty partners when they cheat on their loved ones..
no one has a right to cheat on their bf no matter how serious the relationship may have been..
Its dosent make any sense..everyones a hyprocite. I veiw girls and guys the same. Theres no diffrence to me.
ReplyDeletei undastand u lil man i no wat u mean
ReplyDeletewell the only reason y guys dont have a name is becuz when guys have mulitple girlfriends they are considered as a cheater and nothin else... girls on the other hand well ppl have all sorts of name for them like bird and other names like tht
ReplyDeleteits so true i hate when they do dat .dats y i set a line wit bois dat they cant cross ...n u want to no sum thing i hate to say it but dis is a manz world n we women are just lving in it which suxz but i anit goin to let no man run my show best believe it i do me u do u end of story u cheat hit or hurt me u get dump on the spot n dont call cuz i wont answer simple as dat ..monthz lata if i feel reali nice i would tlk to u n be friendz dats it just friendz ..............so no body can call me a hoe or a smut cuz i dont carry about my self in dat way i no betta.
ReplyDeleteYess u are so rite….at the end of tha dai u wud b so surprise 2 kno how mani guys go around fuckin different girls everyday n still dnt get label as no slut all dey get is playz frum dere hommie…but soon as dey here a girl doing that all u hear is that bitch a whore she a smut all dis…I neva really got it ma self..watz da difference..i guess ppl think girls shud carry themselves in a well mannered wai but shudnt a guy do so as well..this gets me so upset n tite…but heyy society has a wai of seeing wat they want 2
ReplyDeleteYOU ARE SPEKING THE WORDS OF TRUTH!!!! I SERIOUSLY THANK you for allowing people to know how stupid and unfair people can be .......
ReplyDeleteI Really Thought About That for a long tyme and never came up with a legit explanation..buh now it seem as if that is the image males strive to have (to be playas)...and females are the opposite..even when yuh catch a female going out wif numerous amount of men, it can also be simply to find the right one..
ReplyDelete-Antoinette