Monday, June 15, 2009
Love
Why is it that people outside the relationship you are in always seem to be able to tell you whether or not you are in love? They claim it may be too early in the relationship, or that you don't evern really understand what love is. How can an outside person tell you and your partner what you're feeling? In my opinion, people don't like to hear that it can't possibly be love while they are actually in the relationship, because the don't think anyone can tell them how they feel. But when they get out of their relationship they may look back on the relationship and realize that the excange to the "L" word and realize it may have been premature. Love is an extreme word that many people take lightly. Boyfriends and girlfriends throw around the word love without really understanding its meaning. This leads to miscommunication and sometimes even breakups. One person might use the love word and the other might feel like they aren't really to make such a big committment. When is it the right time to use the love word? Is there an actual wrong time to use it? How do you know when to finally say the "L" word? How can you put yourself in a position where noone gets hurt? Guys please leave comments this is an important topic to lots of people..
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well i believe that love is a strong and powerful thing many ppl can fall in love and be fine and many ppl can be hurt by love but if u kno that u r in love then it is a gift
ReplyDeleteI believe that most people throw around the word "Love", and that decreases its significance. Sometimes, that word can be the difference between taking a relationship to the next level, and breaking up. Love is such a pretty word, but most people don't mean it. I believe that Love is a verb, its something you need to show and prove to your partner. If you're not willing to do that, then the relationship will not develop to its full potential.
ReplyDeleteThe word "Love" should only be used in circumstances where the relationship is serious. It's a really strong word and it is always taken for granted.
ReplyDeleteLove is like a two way street give and take
ReplyDeleteIf I Love sum 1 it means
ReplyDeleteI care about u
I would never do nothing to hurt u
I can trust u w/out a doubt
I wouldn't think twice when I'm around u
I believe what U say instead of other PPL
Those r the 5 tops things I can think of...
However, I also believe that PPL can't tell me when I'm in love r not... B-cuz they judge that by my reactions towards the other person. Which is when I "FLIRT." Showing how u Love someone is different " Actions r stronger than Words."
Yes I wud sai that love is a very strong but ppl jus seem 2 throw da werd around in realtionshipz becuz dats wat they think the other person wantz 2 hear..i wud rather a person not tell me they love me den 2 jus sai it becuz they think it mite make me happi. However wudnt u sai it’s a difference btw lovin sum1 and HAVIN love 4 sum1??? I think ppl get the two mixed up at tymez..but love cnt b rushed u jus hve 2 take ya tyme n werk ya wai into it…oh on another note fallin IN love iz different as well
ReplyDeleteok u already kno i had to come thru especially on this topic being as i go so hard for LOVE. so yea there are many opinions on this blog that i agree wit..i mostly agree wit mugas...in a relationship one person may feel love earlier than the other and that is wat happens all the time onli becus ppl set different expectations for wut they think love is or wut they think it feels like wen they love sumbody...so wen one person says those three words..if the other person doesnt feel it yet they should not say it back..its better for the person to say they care for u alot but its not love yet and if u guys are still workin on the relationship it will soon become love to them too..lying is not a cool thing to do..i wudnt want any guy to tell me they love me wen they dont so if i do end up loving a guy b4 he loves me..i tell them dont say it bac if u dont feel the same..tell me wen u feeling it...on the other hand sum ppl may alredy love the person but just havent told them becus they are scared to get hurt just like in past relationships..they hold themselves bac more from the other person...now love in general...i think that people have many different ideas on wut they think love should be..but personally i think love cnt be described with words..its just a feeling inside that the person is right..that u want to b wit this person forever becus they are true, loyal, committed, and serious about the situation at hand, and most of all u r happy...now sum people get confused with love and infactuation and i feel that if peopleare saying they love eachother in between one and 2 months...its infactuation not love especially if u just met the person and know basically nothing about them yet...love takes time..and it starts with building a great friendship wit the person which will b ur foundation becus then u learn the type of person they are and if they r worth it and also if they can be trusted with ur heart...omg!!! ok im done i kno u want me to shut up now lmaooo love ya raymond!
ReplyDeletewell to be hornest wit u ppl do use the word lov alot in a realationship to soon but the thing is sumtimes they dont know any betta cuz when people from the outside tellin u dat u in love or u realli love dat person all the time wat else are u to think........i mean u should no wat u feelin already so dat way u dont get yr head g-up . for me sayin i love u means i care for u i trust u i put u first n so on(but not before godjust sayin)it also mean that they is a place in my heat dats just for u n onli u so. to end dis love is a strong word dont use it unless u mean it !!!!
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my son ray ur rite about dat but the thing is u tell ya partner that u dont want them 2 tell u the "L" word unless they mean it and feel it and da samething 4 u if u dont mean it or feel it dont say it cuz love is a extremely strong word and u cant lie 2 some one about dat cuz it hurts when u find out it wasnt true that the person who i said i love u was lying 2 u
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