Thursday, July 9, 2009
Loyalties
What do you do if a bestfriend of yours is in love but may be being decieved by his/her partner? For example, say you hear a rumor that your friend's boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on them. However it is just a rumor afterall. You don't know if there is any truth to it. But do you want to take the chance in seeing your friend's heart broken in not telling them? Or, do you want to tell your friend and risk ending a relationship that the rumor may not even be true? Do you want to be viewed as the person who ended a great relationship? Either way people want to have their friend's best interest in mind. In my opinion, you should get as much evidence against the person before you confront your friend with the information. Don't jump to conclusions, because rumors are made to mess up peoples' relationships and status anyway. Don't be the person who messes up a relationship for no reason. Assuming the rumors are true, and you do have good evidence, by all means, tell your friend. If you are entirely sure that your friend's partner is cheating, you shouldn't stand by and watch them get their feelings hurt. Don't stand by and wait for your friend to realize it themselves. If you are 100 percent sure your saving your friend from remaining in a relationship in which he or she is the only one that cares. Just don't act without proof. What do you think? As a friend, is it your responsibility to protect your friend's feelings? How soon should you act if you hear a rumor? Before proof or after? These are just my opinions so comment especially if you disagree, but still comment if you do...
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But what if theres proof & the friend is being nieve to the matter & dont believe you regardless the truth.
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"Rumors are made to mess up people's relationship and status" - I know from experience with that quote Ray. But personally it depends on how much a friend is to me I would tell them if I had proof ofcourse, just a stupid rumor ill tell my friend about it but make it clear I have no proof so therefore just warn them to be a lil more observant. Also I would look into it and keep it in the back of my mind. But if the friend is the crazy type to go into some next deep depresson I woudnt say anything unless I have proof. Sometimes people can be irrational when in love.
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