Sunday, June 14, 2009
Asking too much
What do you do if the person you love is just not making a serious committment to your relationship? If it seems like they just really don't seem like they want to be with you anymore? Well I have been in this position recently and this feeling hurts a lot..My ex-girlfriend missed an excessive amount of school at a time, nearly 3 to 4 weeks without seeing her in school. This may seem bad enough already, but she also didn't make an effort to try and contact me to let me know she was okay. When I approached her about the situation she got very irrate, saying I didn't make an effort either, yet I went to her house to check on her, wrote her on myspace and even wrote her on aim when she wasn't even on. I got very upset at her because it seemed like she was trying to justify something that didnt even make sense. This made me feel away, like she wasn't giving our relationship enough of her time. To top it off she started claiming that I had a big ego, and that I placed everything before her. This hurt more than anything she said because it was totally off base. I put her before everything in my life, including grades, friends and even families. While we were together, grades dropped, friends were neglected, and parents were disobeyed. So ho could I put anything before her? Was it asking too much for my girlfriend to make more of an effort to see me and to contact me when she couldn't? I don't know... please comment at let me know what you think...
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dats a tuff situation wen u put it da way u did it don't seem like u wer wrung so idk
ReplyDeleteAt times we tend 2 give our all in a relationship…we even ignore the onez that love us the most jus 2 let dem kno dat u care n will always b dere…but wat hurt most is wen dey walk around actin like dey dnt care wen u tryna give ya all in da relationship….i dnt think ur wrong at all hey im even surprised 2 see a guy actually tryna make a relationship werk usually itz da otha wai round…but at da end of da dai therez nuttin else u cud hve dne she will soon realize she missed out on sumthin gudd
ReplyDeleteok for one thing u should have asked your girlfriends loved ones wat is goin on then maybe u would understand and realized but u were totally right
ReplyDeleteman ur not asking 4 too much u got every rite to c ya lady and if she dont wanna c u or wanna make dat effort den she not rite 4 u no matter how much feelings u have 4 her all dat means is dat its time 2 move on
ReplyDeletedanngggg welll...yea i think your completely right but maybe there was reasoning to the way she acted and maybe you need to dig a little harder until you find out what was really going on.,,, :) but yea she messed up i got to admit.. :(
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