Sunday, June 14, 2009
Betrayl?
A few months ago, I was having a very rough time at home so I ran away from home. This wasn't the first time I ran away, because often I find my parents go too hard. Normally when I leave home I go with my sister who lets me stay with her and her nephew. I went to my sister and I could tell she was on hard times. She didn't really have money to take care of her, myself and her two year old son. I stayed with her anyway, simply because I didn't have anywhere else to go and she was like my safe haven. My aunt thought I was taking advantage of her and that I should go back home. To me I was really intent on never going back so I stayed anyway. Eventually I went home to find out that my sister had been telling my mom everything that was happening while I was there. I felt really betrayed because I thought she was supposed to be on my side. Not only that, she lied about a lot of the things that happened! She claimed I took advantage of her by using her and her kindness. Was my sister justified in telling my other what occured while I was there? Was she justified in exxagerating and lying about some things? Was I wrong for using my sister as my only person to turn to? Or should I have endured my life at home for my sisters well being? Please tell me, I don't know...Comments are needed..
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ur sis shud've considered ur feelings when u were at her house bt then again.
ReplyDeleteshe didn't want ur mom to be worried so that's why she did wat shd had to do if anything =]..
and running away is never the answer to anythin in life..
it just creates more problems 4 no reason..
hmm i think that while u were in ur sisters home yes she had a right to tell ur parents that u were okay but she was wrong for lying on u and making it seem like u were using her...i kno that if i run away i wud wanna go to my sisters house if she was older and i kno tat she wud support me and b there for me...not think that im using her...in this situation i dont think ur sister wasnt being understanding...and i guess thats becus she was having a hard time too but who else cud u have turned to?...i do think u were wrong for running away but i also have feelings of running away sumtimes to so i understand but running away wont get u anywhere...life will always through obstacles ur way u jus have to find the right sufficient way to deal wit them..and always remember that theres always sumone out there dealing wit worse than u dealing wit...try to b greatful for the gud things in life becus thats wut will keep u goin :)
ReplyDeleteyour sister shud have considered the situaton
ReplyDeleteon the other hand i kind of understand her not wanting your mom to worry
but then again the was no reason to exagerate the truth
and don't really think you were using your sister you honestly didn't know where else to turn
Well, It depends on your overall relationship with your sister. If you and her are very close, then I can see why you felt betrayed at the fact that she lied. Whether I agree or disagree on your decision to run away, I still believe that your sister shouldn't have taken advantage of your trust in her. I guess this is a learning experience, that maybe running away isn't always the best thing. Maybe spending more time out of the house could help the situation, but you probably already do that lol. Just try to ignore whatever the problem is, if you can. If you can't, only you will know how to deal with the problem.
ReplyDeleteI cud relate well I hvnt ran away but wen im goin through sumthin I turn 2 ma oldest sis…but at times I dnt want 2 cuz I find out she tell ma motha even after she sai she wont…on da otha hand I hve 2 agree with teesha..u shudnt run away..Ray I kno itz hard aint tymez but we cnt give up or turn our backz we gotta keep it movin… in lyfe we gotta face our struggles in order 2 get 2 da gudd..but if u need sum1 2 turn 2 u always hve ya frenz…hey I wundnt mind listenin :-)
ReplyDeletewow i really like this one i think that more ppl should tell the truth like u do
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